Will the wait be worth it?

Lately, I've been close to situations where people have to wait and their different ways of waiting are definately worth some thought. We are all used to thinking that when a man is married but has a lover, he will never leave his wife.

To my surprise, that statement has changed in the last couple of years, since people are no longer married to society, and they are more commited to themselves. I'm not saying that people should get a divorce at first storm or stay married if they don't love each other anymore. I'm just telling how things seem to work lately.

I know a girl who fell madly in love to a married guy. They where dating for almost two years with fights and love trips in between. He never asked her to wait for him but she did. Recently, he broke up with his wife and they are living together. Happy ending? Not so fast.

He's not divorced, so thay can't be that "public" yet. She has found out that living with him is not as fun as she thought, so now, she's regretting having waited for him so long. She is also wondering what happened to that other man who caught her eye while on "brake times". God, I hate this statement!

Another friend, fell in love with another married guy (this affair lasted for a year), and recently ( I know, everything happens so fast lately) he left his wife. They are currently living the "and they live happily ever after" phase. They are pretty happy and I honestly think they will stay like this forever.

The last couple that I want to bring up is the other way around. She is the one who's married. Yes, the plot thickens! Twenty years of matrimony turned to a dead end! Recently and unexpectedly, she fell in love with a guy (he is single). She's planning to divorce her husband; however, her lover thinks she is taking way too long to make the decision. But as woman, it takes more time to leave our partners.

Five months have passed, and she asked for five more. He claims that he loves her, but he can't do this to himself any longer. He can't wait another five months and has decided to move on without her. Now she is heartbroken, with a husband that she doesn't love anymore and a guy that doesn't think she's worth the wait.

Will you wait for the love of your life?

Well, that's for me to know and for you to find out.